Know how to make the child feel at ease to do homeworkAfter the child enters school, some parents began to get headaches: many children can not feel at ease to do my homework. Some children appear to sit there quietly doing his homework but actually Fugue Quartet, the clouds ... ... After the child enters school, some parents began to get headaches: many children can not feel at ease to do my homework. Some children appear to sit there quietly doing his homework but actually Fugue Quartet, absent; others with homework is like endless running home from school until late at night, but jobs are still low, vulnerabilities, and more mistakes. Pushy parents can't help but worry.
So they come up with all sorts of strategies to alter this behavior. For example, taken strictly "teaching method: do not finish the job, you are not allowed to eat, sleep deprivation, no TV, no ... ... Some parents simply sitting next to children supervision, even the use of corporal punishment. However, in fact, these measures ineffective.
So, how to deal with children's cases? This requires that the parents according to their psychological characteristics and adopt a targeted approach, not a brutal rush. One should pay attention to the following points:
1, creating a good family atmosphere.
To help children learn, parents first settled down to, can read the newspaper, do not make a noise, not making children interested. Learning atmosphere for children to create a quiet, good space, far more effective than sitting next to children supervision. Parents should understand the truth: "a good example is the best sermon." Young children do not understand for what, they just follow the example of their parents, should know how to learn from the parents.
2, do not talk with your children and some parents for emotional communication needs, unwilling to let the children feel when doing homework is ignored, so they always like homework for children when asked questions. "Few? there are several?" Seems like child care, but from time to time, interfere with child, made children unable to focus, think that idea is always being interrupted. Remind parents that: don't chatter with your children when the children learn.
3, reception note does not affect children for a family, visit neighbors, friends visiting, this is often the case. But some people started opening endless and completely forget the children do their homework in the room. Adult chat with most likely to affect the child's attention. Children's learning will be affected. Therefore, the parents shall be arranged as far as possible without affecting the child or children's entertainment of the time to receive guests. While family and friends are the best in children's rest day to visit, if needed, should be tight time schedules, so as not to affect the host children's study and rest.
In short, kids bad lessons not only from children to find the cause. As parents, should always be considered if you have done poorly, a chance for improvement, to the greatest extent possible for children to create a good learning spaces. BACK